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Message from Pat

"If you do not seek out allies and helpers, then you will be isolated and weak."
- Sun Tzu

A lot of my life, and the life many others I know, has been spent with the belief that "I can do it myself."

How wonderful to experience the richness of our lives when we find allies to connect with for what we are up to in our life.

The definition of an ally is: to bind together; connect by some relation, as by resemblance or friendship; associate. One who helps another or cooperates with him; supporter.

In my one on one coaching work, I find that most people want to make a difference in their world. The challenge most have is that they think: "It's too hard, it'll be too much work, I don't know how to do this... ad infinitum." Hundreds of excuses.

When I begin to introduce the idea of finding allies to play along with them, the energy shifts. This is a new possibility and your can hear the doors open.

One of my mentors, Laura Whitworth believes that everyone wants to make a difference... they just don't know how. I take it a step further and say "It is our responsibility to help show them how." I think we are cheating others out of playing their "Bigger Game" if we don't ask them to be an ally and join us in ours. That is what leaders do. Inspire others.

You must get better at empowering others as leaders. Reach out and get better at asking for help. Model this for others.

I guarantee it will open up new avenues and doors that you never imagined were there.

Step into leading and play a Bigger Game in your life... don't wait... model leadership... the World needs us to do this.

Lead strong!

Pat


Working with People's Strengths

As a leader, you will get the best results for the least amount of effort if you work with those who are in tune with your ideals. You would be wise not to give a disproportionate amount of energy to those who are not in tune. Creativity cannot thrive where too much effort is devoted to merely holding the line.

If you develop a nucleus of people who work well with you, and who work well together, others will be drawn in by the magnetism they generate. The stronger the vortex of positive energy, the greater the creative flow. This is the opposite teaching from the well known saying, "A chain is only as strong as its weakest link." True, if you are working with a chain you'd better see that every link in it is strong. More often, however, you'll be working with vortices of energy. In this case, you'll only dilute their energy if you devote much time to negative vortices, which may seem more like black holes in outer space, drawing even the light rays inward to themselves, than like stars that emit light.

In working with individuals, too, concentrate on helping them to develop their natural strengths. Many think to help others by pointing out their weaknesses. Generally speaking, however, people improve more by magnetizing their virtues than by brooding on their shortcomings.

Excerpts from "The Art of Leadership" by J. Donald Walters.


"The Guest House"

This being human is a guest house.
Every morning a new arrival.

A joy, a depression, a meanness,
some momentary awareness comes
as an unexpected visitor.

Welcome and entertain them all!
Even if they're a crowd of sorrows,
who violently sweep your house
empty of its furniture,
still, treat each guest honorably.

He may be clearing you out
for some new delight.

The dark thought, the shame, the malice,
meet them at the door laughing,
and invite them in.

Be grateful for whoever comes,
because each has been sent
as a guide from beyond.

 
  - Rumi



 

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Until next time, I wish you joy and fun and ease and effortlessness!

Pat Obuchowski
CEO, Chief Empowerment Officer
inVisionaria

Helping people step into their roles as leaders in their businesses, their communities and the world. Helping people and organizations find their "Bigger Game™".

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Brief Biography:

Pat Obuchowski is the CEO (Chief Empowerment Officer) of inVisionaria. inVisionaria is a company devoted to helping people and organizations find and achieve their vision and their voice. She works with individuals and organizations that are looking for structure, focus and accountability to set and achieve their goals. She also works with people who are ready to make big changes in their businesses and their lives and step into the leaders they've been yearning to be. People who are ready, willing and able to begin playing their "Bigger Game." No kidding. Right now.

The approach to achieve this and create this alliance is individually based and is designed between Pat and each of her clients.

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"Pat cuts right to the chase, and challenges me to move forward on making steps to take my business to the next level. By asking questions about how I market and sell my services, she found that there are certain areas where I hesitate to go for what I really want. From there she simply asked me why I was making excuses and not taking action! Her questions prompt me to look at my actions, and take action."

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